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my wife almost yes gold diamond all from there. we tied him to the buddha station, we returned this function of kinsinki, kinsivka, saving. well, yes, rehabilitol gypsofol and neurora, we are all cucumbers here. let's help, lads get on their feet. give, wait, vtb will arrive, it can do nothing. irochka irochka to the whole team, i, i, i'm in shock, to be honest, i would never have done it alone, because it's, well, yes. yes, you see , there are so many such moments that if you probably think and comprehend each one. why did it happen so they are different, but uh, you must be going crazy, maria
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. tell me about the foster family. e children from donbass, the largest family group, nine people, nine brothers and sisters, you can’t separate them, how can you take them all to roam through the same family , nine people, i say when they tell us that here we, e, deported children. i say, yes, we arrange families for such children, that, uh, i don’t know where it is at all, but how did they end up, there they were alone in a section of the house, and in different ones. 'cause somebody was in somebody's baby house there was someone in an orphanage, someone was in a correctional orphanage, and the nine of them met only on the plane when they flew to their foster parents and imagine this moscow region knowing that they are here for the first time. that's how they ended up in one place and they know that they are flying to the same family to the same family. yes , these are the heroic people who took them. and they themselves had two blood children at the time of the adoption of these nine. we carried out
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remote communication necessarily, that is, they got to know each other before they flew to the family and says, when we saw them on the screen, when we talked, when we made excuses, you know, children are amazing. this is happiness and joy from the simplest things from some delicious food; here is the joy from the fact that they went to the circus, right at a very young age. there they have a three-year-old up to a 16-year-old. that is, there is such a spread, and they are really all some kind of light. here we bring them directly. these are bright, clean children. open to everything new, they rejoice at absolutely any manifestation of attention and care for them, and it is very pleasant to work with such after what you just told me, yes, our viewers have seen you. and now let's see what story was shot about you on ukrainian television. as you are called russia, the system of abduction of ukrainian children has been established; their organization is engaged in the commissioner for children's rights maria
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lvova belova woman genocide is on the sanctions lists of all eu countries usa canada and even australia according to the adviser to the mayor of mariupol russia abducted at least 1300 children. only from mariupol itself , one of them, ombudsman belova illegally adopted in a. russia decided to withdraw to moscow the moscow region. we were in odintsovo in e-e polyany. someone constantly came to us. well , there were some people who came all the time. well , something was asked. well, this is already so tired. i was just constantly in a bad mood. all. i'm so tired, and at one point comes. masha this boy. i came just from the cellars in mariupol, one of those, uh, who were kicked out by foster parents. and i saw him at our first meeting. we sat with the kids playing, and he with the elders the guys there somewhere in the corner sat with such disdain, looked at everything, something of some kind
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came. this time they told something, i am grateful for this story to the ukrainian side, because after it my son came to me and said, i was offended by them. therefore, i thank them very much for opening the eyes of my child once again, because he is inside, because he knows how it all happens, because he sees that a piece of his interview was cut out. and then he says that his life is completely has changed. and that he is happy. and that now he has a family with his mother and uh, loving uh, close people, and after that we have uh, relations have changed significantly. you had nine children, and then philip appears. yes, how the guys accepted him, how he himself quickly got used to it. well, i want to say that adaptation is still taking place and i can’t say that that ’s all we coped with all the difficulties,
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though it’s not easy and when it’s not easy, and this is about a foreigner, he is truly a foreigner, he is he didn't really look cartoon movies. that our children watched in russia, he did not listen to the music that they listened to, he studied history in a different way, and he has a different focus of attention, and, uh , the most important thing is that even if we remove this cultural code, yes, which is excellent, but he still has problems with the fact that his mother died when he was 10 years old. and uh, this emotional intelligence. it didn't develop with him. well, because there was no one, because no one hugged him. that is, i hug him for the first time, and he hangs his hands. that is, he even you and he says i i do not know how. he didn’t hug me, listen, i want to share with you the good news that a few days ago he called me mom, and now she calls me mom and for. well, sometimes there, as a joke, there is a mother, there
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is a mother, but at such moments. e, when we are close, when we talk heart to heart, he says, mom and for me this is a great happiness, really. tell me why exactly philip became your son? there were also many children there. m-m children come all differently adopted, and some come when you have heart skips a beat, there is a feeling that this is your child, some come, when you understand that you can help this child some come, because well, that's how the circumstances turned out. yes you made the decision you came and you say we won't choose. we will take those who will be offered to us, and so philip came according to my inner feeling that this is my child. i just saw him despite the fact that he was very skeptical. well, such a thing, what came there? something tells the kids fiddling sometimes on the sidelines sat arrogantly on he looked at me, and then i came
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up and began to talk and started talking about what he was interested in, and he said, and i understand that this is my child. i came home, and apparently i had such conviction in my eyes. give a husband, said that listen, here's the boy i say, i think he's ours let's take it. that's how easy it was to agree. i was shocked honestly, because before that we had, well, not a simple, foster parenthood. we have always had adopted teenagers and we have gone through a rather difficult path and now we already have all of them adult son recently married daughter married. and i really hope that soon i will be a grandmother. so i once told my husband that if i once again suddenly persuade you to do this. you must do everything to prevent this from happening , and apparently, so much so that i actually had it . it was more difficult than you expected. and when you agree to everything without knowing. yes, you work with these difficulties. well, well, it happened. and when you know
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how, maybe you are afraid, but you are talking about difficulties, what difficulties i know that here e? daughter alone, uh, when she became an adult did she leave? came back, right? here, but she practically did not communicate, e we said goodbye to her. she had older sisters. she went to live with them. this is the receptionist. this is the receptionist. yes, and we, of course, watched from afar. i understood that if something suddenly happened, we would immediately react. well, but it was such a painful breakup. and of course, what caused it. it was called. no, it was caused by jealousy of other foster children, it seemed to her that i paid more attention. or maybe you're true to them pay more, because the guys were much more difficult than she was. and we have the same as those who find it difficult to pay more attention to the topic. yes, we are close to the family conversation. yes, and she was so quiet, she was so modest. she couldn't demand that attention. after some time, i found out that she opened
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her own small beauty salon. my god, i have learned. yes, she studied there for various types of services, and she was then 20. yeah, they were already adults and and, well, they parted for 18 years. yes, we didn't talk there for 2 years. i know that she married during this period of time for me it was a happiness that she is studying, that she is marrying a worthy person and they will have a family there, that she, uh, equips her home there? yes, here's your nest for me. it was important that what she was able to get in our family. she transformed into her family, because, well, a child from an orphanage, especially a child who has been there almost from birth, he has no idea, what is a family, how relationships are built, when did you take her? how old was she, she was 15. and it turns out that when we made up with her, but made up. i just called her and said, listen, that's enough, i'll come to you for a procedure.
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yes, i say, that's what i need. yes, and she says, so, of course, come, and that's it. i began to regularly come to her for procedures and during the time when she did all sorts of different cosmetic care products. we jumped with her, the smart one started a conversation, and then she shared this pain of hers, how hurt she was, how she did not receive the love that she expected from me, and i realized my mistakes. i realized that i'm really to blame her, that i really could give more and treat her differently there, and i asked her forgiveness. she asked for forgiveness, and we are now on good terms, but you know the most interesting thing is that she says everything that is now in my family life. i copied from you, how are you? after a working day, you return home to your family. when you see this grief tears at every step, decide all this seriously at this
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level, and then you must return as a mother, yes , caring structure and tell the children. how a day has passed to find out who is like. hey, what grades did you get? well, at least yes, for 5 minutes to talk with each, at least. one high-ranking chip girl taught me that you should leave everything at work to reboot and return home in a new capacity, it turns out you reboot as a wife, and it doesn’t always work out, but, firstly, i really love what i do and here i do not have the feeling that here is a constant grief, i have a feeling that i can take part in this. i can change this situation when you create system, when you help, when you evacuate, when you arrange families, when you are engaged in change, uh orphanage systems, when you
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see how it all changes, then this is a huge charge on which you can live for a very long time and in general, there to move and feel, while everything is fine. there is some kind of physical fatigue, but there is also satisfaction from what you can do with the team, when you come home, you come with your favorite work to your favorite house, and therefore, probably, this is what here i am very supportive, but i manage to go to the meeting of my parents, and check my homework. now it's getting less and less. uh, and actually the husband is engaged in it is engaged in the husband. it is with younger children. i have some help. but in general , it is possible for older children to check with younger ones, probably, in fact, in fact, all of us are each friend of the girlfriend. mayat here is the share of responsibility for the younger is on duty around the house. there is a duty there for reading a book, yes
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, for kids, because i come and say. the children are so tired today, please, can i, yes, i i will not read today and the elders say there, she is already studying. i'm at the institute now. she says, i read, there i am there myself, that is, they have felt this way, there are middle sons, they say we will take a walk with the kids. that is, you understand that you have something in the wings, and the children who, uh, actually appreciate the work that you do, are trying to support in every possible way. well, this is also a good educational moment, when i come on saturday, i say, children. today i'll just lie down and spend the whole day on what's there children cook, mothers make tea there. here they are with me, hugging. we are watching some movie with them, and that is, there i do not have the strength to talk there. yes, but she hugs. i always have strength, but for the children. this is the most important thing, when they feel that a loved one is next to them, mommy, she kisses them. he loves them there, but everything is fine in the family. and here is your husband, when you first, well, i see. here are five of them. when did you a say what
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you want? adopted child to take in the family, how this conversation took place, how quickly he e husband agreed. it's already a different life. maybe he told me right away? no, he said, actually, that he was crazy. where we had three small children at that time, and when i offered them a foster child. it was a specific boy, and at that time we worked for a long time with a social institution with orphanages with several orphanages there, and for me it always seemed that this was a betrayal. if i take one and the rest stay there, and here it's just, well that's the kind of love that's like with philip - this is my son. i need to pick him up. i came to talk to me a little. no, they don't seem to be under any circumstances, i'm not ready for this. and we had friends who had adopted children, and also teenagers, and in general, we built it in such a way that insidious women arranged an evening for the whole day, agreed
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what it means, they will try to simply explain to their husband what it is and actually told about your experience. they said don't be afraid if you can help this child i'll try help. you don't have to take it on. there you don’t have to become a father, i don’t know directly there, well, in the full understanding of the word father, well, you can become a mentor. you can become a significant adult. this can give him something that he will not succeed, but you also need to feed , drink, sleep, lay down to trace this very thing. this is the easiest task. here in the waiting room, feed the parents, uh, follow up. this is the easiest and the other one. uh, the problem is how to fit him into this life when he doesn't know it, when he doesn't know how, when he doesn't lived, such as crises. from seven years old and when he begins to live them at the age of 15. it's just a shock, because you 're looking at him. and you don't understand.
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you think that he has some kind of mental disorder, he has some kind of illness , and then you look, and these are crises, and we live through them, and then you get happiness from the fact that oh, the seven-year crisis has lived a little bit another consequence matters, because many people do not adopt, because they are afraid of someone else's bad heredity. i believe it myth. how many children who grew up in their blood families go down a crooked path? yes, we are not talking about this statistics. although they seem to have grown up in prosperous families. although it seems that all the conditions were for the child to take place, but it did not happen . therefore, here. and what do we rely on, we rely on the fact that these prejudices dictate these experiences to people, but we also rely on the fact that very often foster families try to uproot all the past that this child had. and that's not possible need with this child birth. as you said, my son, that instead of cutting my roots, then i
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will not be able to grow. and we need to thank his parents for giving him the life he needs, that thanks to them he is now in our family. here we love him, but another woman gave birth to him. i am grateful to her for this and it doesn’t matter what happened to her later. now is the time to say the most important words. i want to apply. adults i want to tell them that let's love our children. let's hug them more often. let's be more often to tell them how dear they are to us and how important it is that they are with us donbas taught me the value of every day. there are principles not to leave home without reconciling without saying goodbye, because the next meeting may not be. and let's transfer this value of every day to our relationship with children. and i am sure that then
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it's time to take decisive action. cipher story with a continuation, the main thing is to get there fast, no, but when we look for me. i didn't understand.
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of course, the fact that my husband is a priest is a tremendous support and help, because i am going somewhere dangerous, for example, regions, and i know that he is praying for me at the throne god's and that i have this spiritual support and protection. i feel it every day on myself, and this, of course, when you heard the phone rang behind our scenery. you were twitching. you are such a reverent mother, really. i can’t calmly m-m be at all if i didn’t pick up
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the phone when the children call, or i don’t know where they are at the moment with things. i pick up the phone anyway so you say, here, uh, i say, look, i'm a mother of many children, and i have a principle to always take the phone when the children called, because i 'm still a mother first, and then as lilya came to our house, so we began complete kapets. how much she laid about 4-5 months. i already tried to expel the bastard enough and you are sure that it was lily who stole your daughter and took her to moscow, she fled that you threatened her, than when i had cases when she hit her on the head with a stick, why did you decide your father solve parental rights, he drinks a lot, he attacks his mother, and you stand up for her. and what behind you stopper? yes, you need to kill the ax you had in your hands and from the side of the hint
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, most likely, her mother. she came to moscow to put him in jail. let's have margaria. at the very moment when her daughter runs away from home, children end up in an orphanage. so believe, after that god is in our studio today
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katarina fedorova hello karina hello what happened to you? help me, please, my twelve-year-old daughter was stolen from kazan to moscow, how she got there, where she slept, what she ate, i don’t know, and i don’t i know how to get out of this situation. i can't manage myself. that is, you want to return your child to the family. i really want this. who stole the child? i believe it was lily who did it, she is such a bad influence on my child. if lynching was allowed, i would have nailed her long ago. tell me you wrote a statement. yes, of course, the first statement i wrote in kazan on the wanted list later, and zhenya found power. we came to moscow, i took out a loan, because i didn’t have the money for the trip . and when we were in the shopping center, i had lily again, unfortunately. that is, zhenya
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stayed in moscow again, but since i no longer had the means to stay in moscow and buy new tickets. we went home from our daughter to her alone in moscow at the age of twelve, she wrote a statement to the police department to search for my child, again already in moscow, yes, how long has she not lived at home? month month 12-year-old child at the moment, she is in a covid hospital, but we could not pick her up here, because he still has a positive test. understand how she appeared in your life. this is her lily in our house. brought my daughter. nastya asked me, mom, please. let's take shelter. well, well, for a few days they sheltered her and fed her. she slept with us and washed, as if when she came to you 18, and your daughter, who brought her fourteen. i felt sorry for this girl no parents parents. she has,
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but her father lives in sochi, her mother lives in moscow, her mother completely abandoned her. but the father still supported the girl of 18 years. stayed there for a couple of days. well, uh, that's all. and up goodbye. how long did she live? she lived with us for about 4-5 months. i didn't know how to get her out. i've had enough of her and the bastard. she tried to kick her out, but nastya defended her all the time. mom is not needed. mom is not needed, but she has nowhere to live, she is right in front of us. here is between us. she has parents of this girl, in the end you contacted them. yes, we were in sochi and i personally talked with my father. her father said that she had a little psychiatric disorder. well, that's what they would say to their father, take your girl to you. father said because the girl is an adult. that is, he can not influence her in any way. i have repeatedly called the police. they didn't take her away, because they say, well, there is no corpus delicti here, a stranger.
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even though she stole. i wrote a statement. we found our things in a pawnshop. she suffered an administrative punishment. you told us what hell she arranged for you, and even more so , after we see this, more and more questions will arise. that's how lilya came to our house, that's how we started complete kapets. life messed up spoiled property found cans of beer bottles of champagne. that is , i constantly found some kind of alcoholic containers. here is something burned. here it is, the ceilings are all torn. here it is in general. well, it's probably paint. i don't know, here's a huge one. here is such a hole, i sealed it all. well, the view is more decent, so that there is not only that there is in the room. that's all. here, too , here is lily. this is what she brought to our house. and they
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calmly played here. here is this thing. i took it to the police. i say, well wrote a statement. this is how i brought it in the package. i i say, but you can take prints there or something , there, well, 11 years old, probably not at all the age when you can use this thing. and what is this, this is a rubber toy for adults, i wanted lily to be prosecuted. and what a seduction for the possibility of rotation, because it seemed to me that something was already happening there, but the investigator lilia brought this toy to your house, and showed it to the girls in yours. not what she showed. she even played with this one, she has a video on social networks where she has right in her forehead. here she is with zhenya nearby sat your daughter. yes, so you wrote a statement to write to him, reacted, and i received
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an answer that the police department handed over the investigative committee. i didn't have any response, at all, after a while. i contacted the police again with a similar statement. i also received an answer that the investigative committee had been handed over, but again there were no answers, in general, and there were no actions, and you are sure that it was linden who stole your daughter and took her to moscow , i am sure. and why does she need it? why does she need your 12-year-old daughter in moscow, her wife to feed, drink , settle somewhere, do something, what is she for? i think she has some kind of addiction. first from nastya but when nastya

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