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tv   PODKAST  1TV  April 9, 2024 3:05am-3:55am MSK

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the canons of socialist realism are breaking on the soviet screen, because we see truly mass cinema, well, in which two universes and two multiverses collide or merge into one, why did they even take chipaya, why could this be done, it’s a little like in the series sherlock, sherlock dies and then comes back. let me remind you that this is a podcast of witnesses from einstein, where we, film historians natalya ryabchikova and stanislav didinsky, talk about who and how created and watched classic, famous, little-known, forgotten soviet films. in addition to the people who were involved in feature films, there were people who made newsreels, in fact, who filmed battle front-line cameramen, and then it was collected in film magazines, which were shown before each show, in fact, here is your news, they were definitely in your cinema so.
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writes one of the contemporary film historians, valery famin, in the very first days of the war, the first thing that went into the furnace were the secret plans that the filmmakers had in case the war started, because that was how it was suddenly, all these plans were no longer possible to implement, it was necessary to come up with completely new ones, and how do you get out of this, what stories do you come up with, with stories in general it was very difficult, because you want to be closer to what is happening at the front .
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will direct andrei rublev in soviet cinema, as if to return again to this aesthetics of cruelty, yes, ivanovo’s childhood, but then it was absolutely some kind of challenge, i think, which mark donskoy deliberately made in order to hook soviet viewers, and not by chance, when this film was seen in italy, it is believed, as the legend says, that it largely influenced the formation of italian neorealism, and the movement in italian cinema that has emerged in the last year, in fact. world war ii and uh, which then influenced absolutely the entire world cinema, yes, when a movie is shot not in a pavilion, but somewhere on location, when we see real life on the screen, because it is no longer possible to recreate life in a pavilion, we see destroyed cities, ruins, we see not even actors very often anymore, but simply models or, as it were, extras who actually play themselves, all this also partly comes from the rainbow, maybe.
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fate, let them drink it to the end, to the last drop, oh, women, which of them will die now, win a big prize, no, no, no, let them wait first for their women, their own children to renounce them, let them say, no , these were not our fathers, let them face the judgment of the people... then
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let our sunburn and torment be answered, let the anger of the people fall on their heads, and their land will not... quite difficult means of black and white cinema show a rainbow on the screen, and yet it happened, i remind you that this is a podcast of witnesses from inshtein, in which we talk about why and how to watch little-known and famous films, what the viewer wanted to watch, what the viewer fell in love with right away forever, someone still managed to make such films, including at the central united film studio, and these
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were films that somehow related to the war, sometimes it was about those who were waiting, for example, for their husbands from the front, like in the film wait for me... just according to simonov’s script, based on simonov’s poem, wait for me, or like in the film there are two fighters, here there is no longer any posterity, which was in military film collections, but there is just a very subtle, very calm acting, directing, in some places, for example, in in the film, two soldiers, when they appear - soviet troops, even then colleagues wrote in the newspapers that somehow ours appear and the germans immediately all fall there in stacks. well, it’s a little naive, it’s clear that you want to raise morale, yes, but even your colleagues see that it’s not, but when scenes appear more intimate, more human, sincere, yes, they can be, by the way, like in a rainbow, expressive, or they can be very, very
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calm, as in two fighters, where sasha meets a girl in leningrad, arkady tries to help him, they quarrel, then the similarities are all built on... their kind of friendly contacts, we don’t find out what kind of fighters they are in the grand scheme of things, no, we know that they are excellent fighters, but the main thing for us is what kind of fighters they are people, yes, yes, and how exactly do they hold on to this friendship, yes they have this still a fighting partnership, and of course, this film was immediately remembered by everyone for its songs, nikita bogoslovsky wrote two masterpieces of generally soviet film music, pop songs, these are scows across...
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the steppes, only the wind hums in the wires, the stars twinkle dimly, in dark night, you’re beloved,
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i know you’re not sleeping, secretly by your child’s bed, you ’re wiping away a tear. the most offensive thing about this film is that before its release, nikita bogoslovsky gave the text and music to utesov, he managed to record it, first everyone heard utesov’s version, nevertheless bernes’s version is still she won equally, despite the fact that some thought that it was somehow petty, a little vulgar, especially the scow full of mullet, but this is such a thin line that everyone tried to stay on. what are we filming about, how serious is it, how much does it help the front, is it possible to make comedies for the front, yes, roughly speaking, is it necessary here and there, here is the wonderful trauberg, who was one of the creators of maxim , this trilogy about maxim in the thirties, she makes
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a film in almotezh called actress, this is an operetta artist who goes to the rear, works in the theater there, but lives with a woman who always says: my son is fighting there, and you sing songs here? and the actress leaves the theater, goes to work as a nurse in a hospital, and well, naturally, there she meets this military son of this very woman, she doesn’t really know at first what it is. “let’s see, let’s see, yes, what do you think comes out, leopard, you have to go to the artillery, so what, so, again you will sing for it, we will sing after the war, this is it great, you know what i’ll advise you, go to any theater and in the evening before the start , announce that the performance is postponed until the end of the war, because akafi lukinichna and i think that it’s not time to sing and splash now, let’s see what the audience is like with you then will do, especially in the military, what’s the matter with you...” he says, when you don’t understand a damn thing about art, i don’t understand anything,
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but i mean, what are you, nothing, i just want to say that obviously you know a lot about art , you see, i don’t, i don’t understand, i don’t understand, but i love art, that is, here the military themselves seem to be telling us: no, we need your art, again it’s quite a shame that when the film came out, it would seem that everything was so correct, as and how it should be, they were criticized in the newspapers. it’s clear that the chronicle is being filmed in blessed leningrad, of course, the cameramen remain there, the film remains there, and we know that the film
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was about a girl who was released after the end of the siege, it was partially filmed before the complete siege was lifted, and it was very important for the director , vladimir isymont, to show exactly the footage of this very semi-siege, still leningrad.
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in the fall of forty-one, he read an article in the newspaper about how girls sent mittens to the front and wrote on them for the bravest, so he began to think about how to make some kind of plot out of this, they began to write a script, they wrote it in the fall of forty-one, in the spring forty-two, but only in november the road of life opened, they went to film in laduga with real sailors and actors. from leningrad this film was in general such a positive
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attitude towards the film vseladvishnetsky watched it back in leningrad, he was riled up they started showing it there, that is, this is not a short film, a medium film, not a full film, and it was so unplanned, not allowed, not prohibited, it remained like that, of course, it was incredibly difficult to film it, lyubošitz recalls that one from the montage... let’s say she died under artillery fire, yes, and this was all done between dropping incendiary bombs from the roof of a land film and so on, and this is a real feat, which for some reason even film historians have forgotten, why is it necessary today worth watching movies filmed during the great patriotic war, well , because this is primarily anthropological evidence, i think, yes, and it shows people of those years who do not live in imaginary circumstances, but live that life, as if not as an actor with.. .. for many years, but as people who really experienced all this in their own experience, and this
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was a podcast of lisenstein’s witnesses, which i, stanislav dizdinsky and my colleague natalya ryabchikova are referring to, we talk about little-known or famous soviet films within the framework of such a school of moviegoers, which teaches how to enjoy forgotten or famous films of the soviet period. thank you, goodbye, goodbye. i'm larisa guzeeva, let's get married, good afternoon, today the bride is rimma, victoria and ainur, and our groom is andrey, andrey, 52 years old, in an acute attack of jealousy. cut his wife's fur coat and boots, but when he realized that his inner demon was still raging, he decided to file for divorce. andrey is the owner of a dental clinic, teaches orthopedic dentistry at the university, lives in nizhny novgorod, is proud that the workshop prepares rakhmanov’s cabbage soup, dreams of learning to sing, admits that he blames his teacher for the breakup of the family,
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they warn that he is not a sexual giant. andrey will not look in the direction of the owner of ordinary looks and large breasts. who will show off candid photos on social networks and lecture him, will marry a blue-eyed intellectual with appetizing curves, a beautiful gait and a healthy smile. hello guys, hello, uh, my little flowers, my little flowers, thank you very much, thank you, please put it on the floor. how do you like the groom, girls? very cool, what's with the flowers? yes, that means gallant, well-mannered. andrey, i want to say right away that i am an expert on jealousy, everything that concerns jealousy, here i am right, you know, everything is ahead of the planet, an international class master of sports, i am a sick person, a pathological jealous person, so you can trust me, just like this session with
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a psychotherapist, well, let me be a psychotherapist, here. i'm kidding, of course, i'm kidding, of course, no, it's very simple, of course i don't blame anyone for my inner demons, as they are, they came with me into this world; in fact, my task was to discover them, to escape from them. the groom is already an adult, an accomplished man in his own clinic, that’s also good, i’m also a doctor, so we’ll find a common language. a jealous person is jealous of the past, i tortured all my husbands. regarding the past, it was not just important for me to find out that i was the best crush of all the previous ones, but for them to disappear from planet earth, for him to call them in front of me and tell me that they were creatures and that this was the most terrifying mistake in the life of my husband. , as i recognize myself, i tore up photographs, i humiliated and insulted me all the time, i behaved like an unworthy asshole, i just
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couldn’t do this, i understand this today, then i couldn’t cope and no one helped me, that i did nothing from you i’m not different, that’s how it was, naturally, first of all, i didn’t perceive myself in the person close to me, and it wasn’t about him, but about me absolutely, i dug a hole for myself and the hole only got deeper, it only got worse, you know there is physiological jealousy, there is pathological jealousy, physiological is normal, pathological - this is really, really, i will never come to terms with jealousy. why did everything happen like this? because you took a walk yourself? yes, of course, i didn’t limit myself - in my romantic hobbies, although i was not a free person, i was a very freedom-loving person, but you somehow compared it, and put it in one row, so i’m a jew, because i’m an infidel myself, yes, that’s why i torture my unfortunate woman, i take it out on her, or
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did you think that we kings can, but they don’t, in fact, people before they start live a conscious life, they don’t see themselves from the outside, that’s what you’re telling me now, i can, in general, from the perspective of the years i’ve lived, the time i spent in awareness, spent alone, i need to understand, i need to reason me in the past, at that time, from my side , i was very concerned about being a beloved son, brother, i don’t know, neighbors, classmate, friend, it seemed to me, yes, a little jealousy, this could be good, that’s it, but when it’s unnecessary, of course, there are such panicky, jealous people, this is... a manifestation of a situation that has escalated to divorce and breakup, before the destruction of the family, it was the only time, that is, it all started from that moment, and such gnashing of teeth was already there, probably from the first day, well , always, it was always there, that is, this
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desire to control the people around myself, it was always there, not only not only but wives, you, in principle, everyone... of course, that is, i am a controller, in fact, how, in fact, did this affect the business in the inability to move forward in life, you know, i was jealous of my mother mine, like her own granddaughters, yeah, from my brother, actually, i went to the toilet and i cried, i was jealous of my friends, i couldn’t, i was choking, it was so painful, i then understood all this to myself, i then sifted through so much literature on this subject, they let me go, you reflected on all this in the language of psychology, called reflection. listen, the fact that he is so jealous and the fact that in an impulse he cut things, this does not stop you, as if yes, on the way to him, it does not scare you, but it scares me, his dational state is very interesting.
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and unforgiveness for what happened to us teacher, it all remained inside, when i came to kindergarten just in the morning, i was a little late, and this caused great irritation in my teacher, she pulled me, one might say, by the ear, she just seemed to punish me for this, but it was my fault i was by and large in nothing, why, because the child never and you remember this, of course, i don’t remember this, i know, when i remembered this, after 4 years, well, it might be similar, of course, his ex is there wife and... teacher, but it seems to me that this is some kind of very interesting story, some kind of strange, for example, i don’t have this, why are the eyes of the second
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teacher covered up, and not the center one, the main culprit, that’s exactly why i covered up those eyes of hers, says that i was aware of what she i don’t like it, they also drew a mustache and a beard for her, well, it’s us who i didn’t draw, we drew everyone from pushkin to lermant, who... and who looks like a wife, look, who is not smeared, who is not smeared, but so what if your wife also pulled you by the ear? no, that ’s not why at all, that is, offended by this person, i kept this resentment inside, then i reacted to a person who was similar in appearance in my life, tied it, and showed it by the fact that you married this woman, lived with her for 26 years, i essentially took revenge on this teacher in the person of my wife by dumping me. dear, please tell me, is there a life hack, i hate this word, for stopping these very attacks of jealousy, well, except for those of cutting your fur coat, throwing away your boots, psychologists
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advise taking a few deep breaths if an attack of jealousy begins, and then engage in sublimation, it's by sublimation that i don't i made a slip, it’s interesting, he himself has crowns, well, we need to look, damn, it’s not very visible, below, in my opinion, there are no crowns, veneers, actually, they should already be. attribute him to these actions, he thinks that he is a giant, you say to yourself, your libido has gone away, my libido has not gone away, look, it’s not libido that has gone to nothing, these are
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the painful components of sexual desire, it ended, maybe mine ended a long time ago, you live on the second circuit, you have passion, you live on the second circuit , perception of processing consciousness, in the sense i i’m old, no, no, you came into this world like this, live like this, please, or maybe you’ve sickened your wife with jealousy, these... look, in fact, if i knew what i know now after working with a psychophysiologist, in no case with a psychologist, with a psychophysiologist, i had a very strong family, i would have been grateful to my wife then, as i am very grateful now, that is, i adore her now, here is my wife, a former divorcee, suddenly right now this but because i realized that for me she is a litmus test for the dirt of my soul. please, as a result, there was some truth in the fact that you were jealous of her, that it really was so, no, the incident that caused the attack of aggression, it was not out
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of nowhere, it was just an employee who gave her a lift, in fact, from a corporate event, second hobby, she just mirrored my inner state, like this you live with a person and you don’t know what’s in his head, what he thinks, my wife didn’t know the reason why he married her, what it could be and not love at all. i believe that if you are in desire someone in your thoughts, then it’s practically you who have changed your color again, no, that if you desire someone in your thoughts, then you have already changed, and it’s not necessary that it’s some kind of person, well, i wished, i was the same, according to i’m telling my ex, when you got into her correspondence and read that she had such tender feelings with someone. yes , there were no tendernesses there, there was a fact of communication with a person, i agree from the point of view of the absolute, as if from the point of view of this spiritual perfection, now speak as you already have. your
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feelings when before, when you were alive, when you had real feelings, if you suspected, loved, were jealous, and so on, when you were still alive, now you are absolutely cellophane andrei with cellophane eyes, who says what he was told, because the kindergarten teacher, because this, because i haven’t closed this gestalt yet, here i have already closed it, she, i am grateful to her...
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what was there? there the dialogue was that these people like each other, they communicate and are glad that they met, yeah, and that’s you now already, when you became a sick cellophane person, consider that it’s nothing terrible, nothing special, if i read this even today, i wouldn’t kill him, i would just scald him with boiling water, oh, of course, but what, because a jealous person , i’m a kind person, but i have one big problem, i’m possessive and jealous, i’m jealous of rosa, she already... understood, she behaves appropriately, she says that i’m the best, i’m loved and so on, that’s why we have this problem, it cannot be treated, with age it will resolve a little when the hormone has calmed down, but for now you are still fine, and just with larisa’s age, it just came to him, tell me, you read this, how did you not burst from horror, i didn’t just burst, i wanted to buy a shovel, so an iron shovel to meet a person , dear, now i’m interested in you, yes...
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to be aggressive, to study psychology, well , it’s a little strange, right, it comes out of the blue, you came to her with this phone and said, well, honey, you're doing something, she says, but i have nothing, so i met a good person, i feel good with him, and i open the photo, and there is such a handsome man, a tatar with eyebrows, bald, i just think, i’ll come and tell rose how i felt, she will congratulate me.
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therefore, we treat everyone with understanding, yes, please tell me, and you told your wife that i was getting a divorce, even i’m not that i’m a controller-manipulator, and with my actions i wanted to force her to give up the hobby that she has it was, in fact, as they say, this fur coat, i cut all these, oh, what was it like, mink, sable, what, danorko, oh, darling, oh well, i left part of my soul in her.
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he cut it alive, she abandoned her love for this, no, no, no, no, when you realized that you can’t get her back, and you don’t really need it anymore, that’s not the point, i just realized this 4 years later, only 4 years later, because all these, no, all these 4 years i was seething with jealousy, rage, i couldn’t meet with her, every moment of communication was accompanied by, but you lived in the same house , no, no, i left right away, i left right away, but they didn’t give her life either,
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there was something, but she kept her face, she preserved herself, as if she didn’t give in to me, thanks to this, it made you angry, that’s why you didn’t let go, but if she had broken down, you would have let her go, and since she said, yes, you would have thrown it away, otherwise, to let him go, he would throw it away, of course, no one needs broken toys, of course, that is, i understand that this person cannot be explained, well , in the sense of conveying his point of view, he is always right, so it seems to me that he is like that at work, and at home like this, only he’s right. after the divorce, you also didn’t give her any life? no, by the way, after the divorce everything has stabilized, in general, all those processes, all that awareness, it happened, in general, we have established a very good relationship, that is, now i adore her, anna, anna,
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anna, dear, if suddenly you somehow so watch this program, and if you are free or the man next to you allows you to come to us, please, i beg you, because millions of people who are tormented and suffering, who... are looking at us now, cannot to get out of this dead end with the help of any psychologists, no one, only our own example to them we can tell, well, somehow explain to them, chew on it, because this is what eats people, please come to us, okay, thank you, the children left their mother, no, in fact, now we have restored such a spiritual space of the family, i don’t actually have a family, but spiritually i saved it, we all live together, we kind of care together in a single spiritual field, in a spiritual field -
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today we’re filming, then i have a wonderful relationship with my wife, the biggest achievement was that i couldn’t do teeth, i'm a dentist, professional, i'm a vice champion russia, 2002, a dentist known throughout europe, i have a practice in switzerland, i have a practice in germany, i
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couldn’t do it with my patients, i couldn’t, i didn’t have enough, i wouldn’t love myself in it so much, i couldn’t , i couldn’t raise my hands to do all this, you see, with each story he has some kind of facial expression that correlates with him, it’s really very interesting . when she got together with her friends, she didn’t talk about that, not about work, not about children, but said: “my friend is going crazy because of me.” mind." look, girls, she cut my fur coat, threw away my boots, loves, dies if i leave him, if i go to
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pyotr ivanovich now, andryushka will die without me, this is my cross, i must bear it, listen, you just now you touched the notes of my heart, when you told me, it seemed to me that you had tears in your eyes, i almost burst into tears, my heart skipped a beat, let’s start, eh? you’re 52 years old, he wants a young woman from 28, but that’s how since he won’t be jealous if so, but that means i want to pay attention, because you wrote this yourself, it means that you have habits, in general, you are senile, look,
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you interrupt, probably when you can’t hear well, you sit on the path, you are always late everywhere, you break off your nails with the help of any sharp object, well, you want to ... sex, but i like you more than you, that you love money and suffer from a lack of it, but we’re still moving, not moving, everything’s fine, he has a clinic, yes, but he used to be in primakov, he said. an ugly girl the same age, you will be jealous of her,
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if you love her, you will be jealous, if you don’t love her, you you will still be jealous, because you need to be a master, only if your woman dissolves in you, she will be your complete slave, she will be in control of absolutely everything, then you will more or less calm down, so marriage should be negotiated, mutually beneficial, you are an adult , you are children... you don’t want more, he wants, he doesn’t want, if the chosen one has such a task, if you marry a woman with children, you will be the worst stepfather on planet earth, you will be an evil bunch, because these children will remind you about your sex wives with other men, as a result of which these children were born, so you need a woman now by agreement, even, strict, there are such women who are very decent and strict.
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hello, i'm rima, i hope that i can heal your soul, fill your heart with love, and i also have a message for you, and i believe that chance, not by chance, put out the light, we won't need it anymore, has risen.
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the sun, it can be read, yes, it can be read, behind every great man there is always a woman who believed in him and loved him truly, according to the script, it’s not a coincidence, i put my kiss, come here, it’s in harmony, they’re in direct harmony, rima is 32 years old, obstetrician-gynecologist, operating doctor, specializes in female infertility, lives in kazan, is proud that during covid she worked in the emergency gynecology department, dreams of opening her own clinic, warns that you should always pay attention to a man’s speech, admits that she has an increased libido, only after 8 years of hard work with her body, rimmi managed to fulfill her dream and become mother, but already six months after the birth of the child she realized that there was no point in saving the marriage, hello, hello, dear roses, the groom liked the bride, he
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said that the girl had come, the sun had risen, yes, and his eyes were shining, he was smiling, now she’s sitting, smiling with sparkling eyes, well, first of all, we congratulate you on finally becoming a mother, thank you, that’s true, a shoemaker without boots, you’ve already been practicing for 8 years, but how... a child is all it became a little different, did you expect it to
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be like this? i didn’t expect it, honestly, because when we lived in marriage, it was such a measured, calm life, i myself am a very calm person, that is, the state of comfort, coziness, family is very important to me, i was raised that way, she is also a doctor, like the groom, like me too, all the doctors, with the advent of the child, dissolved in him, and there was no time for my husband, no, with the advent of the child, i realized that... i’m not ready to be a father and not ready to bear the responsibility that he is a dad. look, uh, now you and andrey are absolutely mirroring each other, you’re the same jealous, because for a jealous person it doesn’t matter who will be... the object of his jealousy, so to speak, andrei had a wife, and you have a mother-in-law, you were jealous of your husband for your mother-in-law, you thought that he devoted too much time to her, right? i wasn’t jealous, i just think that at the age of 30 you call your mother two or three times every day, but this is not considered the norm, and you come there
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every week or two weeks, well, you have your own family, or you put your own money, that i have my own family, and you live there, listen to your wife, yes, and you are with her you consult, not with your mother, this is important for me, but how often did you communicate with your mother, and i had boundaries built, that is, we communicated once a week and we came , well, once every two months, for example, and if mom i even gave advice, then i said to my mother, this is my family and here we decide together, how can you think that it’s bad when a husband goes to his mother, i think that they are suitable, who are you talking about these boundaries? i told you that i built them for myself and with me, when you realized that you needed these boundaries, well, for example, with my mother, well, here you go, i will, no, i’m just curious now, i’m sincerely curious, because i don’t understand it, because i dreamed of living with my mother, i just it was my dream, which
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later came true and we lived together for decades, i don’t understand how you can be jealous of your man for his mother, because with the arrival of me - his... mother should not die, on the contrary, you just have to thank, here i am, for example, as i always said, thank you, there for my husband, thank you, because he is so cool, i i understood that his mother gave birth to such a cool guy, but how can you forbid it on the contrary, i said, are you sick, 5 days have already passed for this mother, let’s go, but no, how can we, let’s buy it for your mother, but how can we... to another, it’s like, these are your relatives? i agree, i don’t agree, you don’t agree with me, rima, don’t lie, because you were against him calling his mother, it annoyed you, at the age of 30 he should stop being his mother’s son, here you are they said, i don’t think it’s normal that at 30 years old he called every day, every day yes, i don’t think that’s the norm, why, why
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should a man tell his mother how he’s doing every day, because the mother is worried, because he hasn’t stopped being her son, and she’s interested, and for her it’s... food, for a wonderful pastime, for procreation, but with the advent of a wife, the mother should not dissolve, she should not go anywhere, all the unhappy women who
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have been here for 15 years, they all had bad relationships with mothers-in-law, your mother-in-law helps you, like a grandmother, no, well, this is for you... the result, and you forced your husband to do this to him . i’m basically a non-conflict person, that is , we didn’t have any conflicts in the social circle, not conflict-ridden, you kept withdrawing when he called, and you went into the kitchen with those eyes, again your eyes rolled if it was five or six times a day, well of course, i mean, you found out how your son is doing, okay, everything is fine, but why call there, for example, every 2 hours, well, i don’t think so, that it was so, rome, i don’t believe, it was so that here they are in the first year of our family life. they could just come on saturday or sunday without saying that they were coming at 7 or 8 in the morning to knock on the door, but what they wanted was, well, just to find out how we were doing and came to visit, and how my son reacted to it was normal, he said, well, it ’s like my parents, well, they’re so worried about us, so they checked there,
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is the house clean, and am i cooking, and is there soup on the stove, that is, is everything ironed, and the house if it’s been removed, look at it, look at what it’s like... the first time the audit was successful, well, that means they decided it a second time suddenly this is a production, it was a good housewife, so listen, yes, well , yes, like this, yes, come, this is called , can i tell you now, this is called blob , if the parents here, i’m on your side. if parents push their children at 7:00 in the morning on a day off, they are not only not raising them, it’s just some kind of genetically transmitted from family to family, well, redneck, well, you can’t do that, but it’s a scam. not this, as a result of what confused you, in fact there were situations that were very offensive to me, there was a situation when i was sick and, moreover, my husband
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knew that i was sick, that i felt bad, he left me, he went to his mother, because my mother said, well, come, i haven’t seen you for a whole month, he just left, as if a month, if they met, you say all the time, no, these were still covid times, and that is, you remember those times when these moves were prohibited, and i myself once fell ill with covid. and he left me, he left, so what was the argument that he left you with covid? well, he said that suddenly my mother gets sick, i need to see that everything was fine with her, that is, he went with how he got you, and if he caught this covid from you, then it was very scary, by the way, we worked together with rosa during covid and we were so scared, it’s impossible to describe, our operator died during covid, and we didn’t yet know what was not transmitted through plastic, through everything, but it was very scary. i believe that a husband and wife should support each other and not leave when their partner, your spouse, or your wife has
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problems. you know how, a wife will find herself another, but your son’s mother never, as a result you divorced, and he has only one mother, i agree, but why do you need a rival, who is more important, mother is more important, mother is always more important, i agree, mother is always more important and you are more important and you will live like that, but love for mother is one thing, love for children is completely different. this is not something that can’t be compared, it can’t be put on the same level, but a man somehow has to explain all this, and not just give up leaving, well , look, roman, you really didn’t die, but you were lying there, you had medicine, he went for the whole day, yes, he didn't go for the whole day, he went to visit, and if something terrible had happened to his mother, if it had happened to his mother, i think she simply didn’t love him, if such claims are made, this is not about love, this is an absolutely mirror situation with andrey, like for you, this situation, you know, maybe it’s somehow biased. treated his mother, maybe again on the basis of jealousy, they parted easily, parted, to
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be honest, my love passed away, i let him go very easily, because i understood that there was no point in living anymore, this was the end point that it was family event, and we set a certain date, what a family event, and this is after the birth of a child, we call it aqika, that is, a victim of transfer, and the relatives are going, ramadan, the holy month, we wanted to do a certain date, but his mother said that no, it will be more convenient for us on that day, let’s do it on that day, and why is it inconvenient, she had some plans, she wanted to gather as many of her guests as possible to show what, well, you see we have such an event so that all her guests arrived, but for me it was important that this was a holy month, i wanted to feed the people who are... keeping fast, look, rome, so that it would be for the child, all the time you were married, you didn’t fight with my mother-in-law, not with my husband, but fought with myself
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and with my own terrible demons, i know what i’m talking about, this is a dead end that doesn’t lead anywhere, i would really like this story to teach you, because this is jealousy destructive, terrifying, it destroys not only marriages, relationships mother and my own... that is, there is a common piggy bank, my husband saves, i save.

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